FAQ

It’s pronounced “patch-aug!”
Please RSVP by Friday, May 24, 2024.
As soon as possible! All details are available on our Hotels page. If you don’t find the information you need there, please contact us directly and we will be happy to help!
Yes! Your children are welcome and will very likely have other children to play with.
No, sorry!
The wedding will take place mostly outdoors, with the dinner reception and dancing under a large tent. We hope it won’t come to that, but there will be a rain plan in place too!
There is no dress code: just wear what you love, what makes you feel fabulous. August in New York is generally quite hot and humid, so plan accordingly. Important note: the wedding will take place mostly outdoors on uneven, grassy terrain, so we recommend no stilettos.
We will have a seasonal, omnivorous menu and will provide vegetarian, vegan, and gluten-free options.
Many of you are traveling from across the globe to celebrate with us in New York. Your presence means the world to us, and is all we ask for. If you would still like to contribute something, consider donating to one of these charities:
Kākoʻo ʻŌiwi — an Oahu-based nonprofit committed to perpetuating Native Hawaiian culture and reviving traditional agricultural practices.
White Cross Orphanage — an 81-year old Filipino institution based in Metro Manila, providing extensive care and adoption services. Todd’s late father Harold McArthur was a longtime supporter of White Cross.
Yes!!!! Email us at beatriceandtodd [at] gmail [dot] com

The photos on our Welcome page capture the moments immediately following our engagement in Kaua'i, at the summit of the Kuilau Ridge Trail.

This photo captures our Very Important Post-Engagement Peanut Butter & Jelly Sandwich.